Hips, Holidays and Heaven
I’m not feeling Christmas
I like the idea of feeling like Jolly Old Saint Nick on Christmas, but I tend to feel more like Scrooge. Well, maybe not like Scrooge, but maybe George Bailey: drowning in the midst of life and wondering if I am deeply missing something. “Should I be emotional right now? Everyone seems to be crying, should I be crying? All those people look bright-eyed and bushy tailed. What am I missing?”Missing. There that word is again, missing. An absence, a lack, a need unmet. WHAT IS IT!?!? I don’t know, that’s why it’s there. If I knew, it wouldn’t be there. Maybe it’s the presents; maybe people are receiving better presents than me. Wait, what if they are giving better presents than me that sounds better. Oh, maybe they still believe in Santa? Is Santa real? Shoot. Do they like cold weather? Is it snow? No, people in the South love Christmas, can’t be snow. Certainly it isn’t Hallmark movies, at least not for everyone. The music? People love Christmas music. Ahhh! I don’t know!
Better to receive than to give. Or now HOW to receive…
Apparently, children change the entire dynamic of Christmas. My mom’s side fo the family gathers every other year for the grand gift exchange, and lately, it’s been a lot of older kids.So you know—us, picky millennials that either want a very specific thing or just a gift card. We ruin any possible surprise, and our faces upon opening the gift, show it.
But when the younger generation is involved—the ones that still believe in Santa—all of the adults get more excited for the coming celebration. We are looking forward to seeing their faces when they open the next big shiny toy. A MONSTER TRUCK or BARBIE HOUSE they scream! And then it’s as if you have given them a spoonful of sugar as they rip through the box like a madman and run around showing off their latest treasure. Well, sugar was probably involved any way, if we’re honest.
Why is that so fun? Watching them become big eyed and ecstatic?
Shameless Plug
The plug metaphor has perhaps been overused, but I can’t seem to think of another way to explain how important it is to be plugged into a Community Group. A piece of electricity can not function unless it is plugged into a source that provides energy. Obviously, the energy in a Christian circle is Christ alone. But follow me here when I suggest that Community Group is also a source of energy for you.Love is meant to flow
Like water, if it is pent up, it stagnates and breeds unwholesomeness. But when unimpeded, it refreshes everything it touches. And like water, love is a universal solvent, eventually softening and dissolving away anger, fear, misunderstanding, even hatred. Read more…